Last Friday, I decided to stay late at Ginghamsburg UMC, after class was over, to observe the middle school outreach program at the Avenue. “Full Throttle” reaches out to hundreds of sixth-eighth grade students from several surrounding communities. According to the adult servant leaders, peak attendance can reach nearly 900 students. This past Friday, being a nice summer day, only found 500 students walking through the front door.
I began the evening assisting at the front door, where students pay a five-dollar entrance fee. It was a learning experience for me to watch the clothing and accessory trends of middle school students as they filed past. Not to mention the wake-up call to see a metal detector in use at a church function! I really could not believe my eyes at what some of the kids were wearing and to watch all bags searched and all students willingly go through the metal detector as if it was merely a doorway. Talk about a learning experience for an upper-middle class suburbanite!
After watching and participating in check-in, I floated around the different areas (basketball, skate park, dance club, coffee shop, and snack-bar/arcade) to talk with servant leaders and students alike about their experiences at Full Throttle. One servant told me that she did not really feel called to work with children. She began helping with Full Throttle in order to get her husband (not a church-goer) involved in mission. This woman’s husband is now highly involved in this mission, and she is happy to be working with him every week, even if she does not get to see him all night long.
Another servant began serving when her son became interested in Full Throttle. This woman even comes to Full Throttle when her son does not, and is considering continuing with this mission even after he moves on to high school. Yet another servant, a skateboarder, is excited about the fact that Full Throttle offers an indoor skate park for youth. He was excited to tell me that since Full Throttle has offered this opportunity at the Avenue, skateboarding at the church has taken off. He said that some of the students (middle and high school) go to a skateboarding camp each summer with the church group and there is now a Tuesday night program for older students to skate too. The pride this servant had in this ministry was clearly evident, when he was talking about outreach to students who are typically left unchurched.
While talking with students, most of them became involved because of friends and willingly come back week after week for the socializing opportunity. A couple girls I talked with told me of friendships made with others from different school districts. Most students were just excited to have a place to hang out on a Friday night.
The student that really caught my attention was one that, to me, was dying for attention from an adult. I was randomly asking students what they would be for Halloween if they could be anything, this student’s response was “It doesn’t matter, I won’t be here then.” This discussion led me to create my own pastoral care space in the midst of this youth event. My thoughts naturally went to wondering if this student was suicidal. A few more questions discovered that this student was making dangerous decisions like drinking and drug use. I talked with the student as much as I could without pushing too far as to alienate him, but felt that the discussion was inadequate. I felt that in order to form a proper bond to discuss these issues, I needed to be more than a one-time volunteer.
This experience made me realize the true importance of servant-ministry instead of mere volunteerism in church mission. I realized that it takes more than a short-term commitment to truly address the issues found in true church mission. We, as church leaders need to stress the importance of commitment to ministry. Mission is a sacrifice, not a means to complete community service hours.
From: June 25, 2010
